I’M KIM VELEZ
TRAUMA THERAPIST, TRANSFORMATION COACH + CREATOR OF THE BEING HER MEMBERSHIP
Licensed mental health counselor with 15 years of experience specializing in trauma, now known as one of the leading voices in love, self-worth, and identity transformation.
I’m a certified life coach, certified NLP practitioner, certified hypnosis practitioner, transformation coach, and nervous system mentor.
And I’m the creator of the Being Her™ Method—a powerful process that blends deep trauma-informed healing, spiritual embodiment, and subconscious reprogramming to help women permanently shift the patterns that keep love at a distance.
My work is different. It goes deeper.
Because I’m not here to give you another surface-level mindset hack.
I’m here to help you rewire your identity at the root—emotionally, psychologically, energetically, and somatically—so you stop spiraling, settling, and seeking approval… and start becoming the woman who just knows she’s chosen.
I’ve led the self-concept in love movement inside the manifestation community, with over 21 million views (and counting) across social media.
And I’ve helped tens of thousands of women around the world become the version of themselves that no longer begs, chases, or compromises to be loved.
Before this? I lived the exact patterns I now help women break.
I know what it’s like to feel not good enough.
To obsess over someone who won’t commit.
To stay stuck in almost-relationships and toxic dynamics—because deep down, you don’t believe you’re worthy of more.
Until I decided:
I don’t have to earn love. I am good enough. Period.
That truth changed everything.
Because choosing you?
Choosing your worth?
Choosing to finally become Her?
That’s the key to getting exactly what the fuck you want.
And now, I teach women to anchor into that truth—fully, deeply, and unapologetically.
Because Being Her™ isn’t just a program.
It’s a way of being.
It’s the path to becoming the secure, magnetic woman who attracts the love she desires—and keeps it.
You don’t have to chase it.
You don’t have to fix yourself.
You don’t have to shrink to be chosen.
You just have to choose you.
And I’ll show you how.